firmware: verify against actual target hardware, fix real conflicts

Researched the exact modules the user is building with and fixed three
concrete issues the earlier speculative firmware got wrong:

1. WiFi: confirmed the target board (Waveshare ESP32-P4-Module-DEV-KIT,
   chip ESP32-P4NRW32) bridges WiFi through an onboard ESP32-C6
   co-processor over a fixed 7-pin SDIO link (CLK18/CMD19/D0-14/D1-15/
   D2-16/D3-17/RESET54, cross-confirmed against Espressif's own
   esp-hosted-mcu docs). wifi_manager.c's esp_wifi_init()/esp_wifi_start()
   calls don't need to change — esp_wifi_remote/esp_hosted provide a
   drop-in-compatible API — but the component manifest (new
   main/idf_component.yml) and sdkconfig.defaults were missing entirely.

2. Real pin conflict: the presence sensor's original UART pins (17/18)
   directly collided with the SDIO CLK/D3 pins above — wiring it there
   would have broken WiFi, the sensor, or both. Moved to GPIO4/5.

3. Swapped placeholder parts for the user's actual hardware:
   - BME280 -> BMP280 (GY-BMP280 module): temp+pressure only, no humidity.
     Rewrote the driver rather than just renaming it — the old code would
     have read nonexistent humidity registers and reported garbage
     forever. 3.3V-only wiring note added (the BME280 assumption of
     5V-tolerant logic doesn't hold for this specific breakout).
   - LD2410 -> RD-03E (Ai-Thinker, not Hi-Link — a different manufacturer
     with a different, incompatible UART protocol). Rewrote the frame
     parser against the RD-03E's actual (if less-documented) 5-byte
     simple-report format. Reports numeric distance instead of a boolean,
     which better fits both the hardware's actual output and the backend's
     statistical anomaly detector.

README, CMakeLists.txt, and all cross-references updated to match.

firmware/esp32p4-sensor-node/main/wifi_manager.c

@@ -1,5 +1,7 @@
-// Wi-Fi station-mode connection manager — see wifi_manager.h for the
-// hardware caveat about ESP32-P4 not having an integrated radio.
+// Wi-Fi station-mode connection manager — see wifi_manager.h for how Wi-Fi
+// actually reaches the network on this target (ESP32-C6 co-processor over
+// SDIO via esp_wifi_remote/esp_hosted). The esp_wifi_*/esp_netif_* calls
+// below are the same ones a Wi-Fi-native chip would use.
 //
 // Structure follows ESP-IDF's own documented Wi-Fi station example pattern
 // (event-driven connect via WIFI_EVENT/IP_EVENT + an event group the rest